The Cornerstone Athletics Podcast

Send us a Text Message. Ever journeyed back in time through the power of music? This episode is your ticket as I recount the electric buzz of a Prince concert that left an indelible mark on my youth. The kaleidoscopic soundscape of my teenage years was painted with the artistry of icons like Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson, and the emotive strums and vocal magic of Prince himself. I'll whisk you away on a tale of a hilarious hat-borrowing episode and an unexpected, awe-inspiring interaction with the Purple One, igniting the playful query of our potential familial ties. Meanwhile, navigating the playing fields of youth sports, we tackle the intricate dance of parenting. It's a delicate balancing act to foster the right team spirit and support our budding athletes. We'll explore the pitfalls of parental involvement—from those well-intentioned but misguided emotional reactions to the know-it-alls who may unwittingly inject negativity. I'll share personal anecdotes, shedding light on the journey to self-awareness and how vital it is to contribute constructively to our children's development, both on and off the field. As we lace up for the challenges ahead, this episode doesn't shy away from the tough conversations about trust, failure, and the overprotection that can stifle our kids' growth. I'll share an inspiring example of a coach's recent impactful actions and highlight why it's crucial to push ourselves and our communities toward continuous improvement. So, as we head into the weekend, join me in reflecting on these stories, and let's keep the dialogue flowing. Your perspectives enrich our collective experience here at Cornerstone Athletics, and I'm eager to hear from you as we craft the next chapter together.

Send us a Text Message. There's something magical about the way a song can transport us back in time, and on today's show, we're riding that wave of nostalgia as I recount one of the most hilarious mishaps from my college football days. Imagine sitting in a tense team meeting only to have it interrupted by Kanye's "Can't Tell Me Nothing" blaring from your phone — yep, it really happened! We're not just laughing about past antics, though; we're weaving through the emotional tapestry of memories that sport binds into our lives. Switching gears, we explore the rollercoaster journey of youth volleyball, where the triumphs and tribulations of my kids' teams serve as a backdrop for life's greater lessons. We celebrate my youngest's team clinching victory, empathize with my middle daughter's narrow miss at the championship, and nod in understanding at the unpredictable mix of success and setbacks that has shaped my eldest's experience. It's a reminder that every spike, serve, and save is more than just a game – it's about perseverance and the collective heartbeat of a team coming together, moment by moment, match by match. Lastly, we pull up the curtain on the synergy that fuels sports relationships, underscoring the importance of consistency, communication, and education. We're not only coaching athletes to victory but also shaping individuals who play with integrity and honor the spirit of the game. We tackle the challenges that athletes, parents, and coaches face, advocating for a unified approach to nurturing talent. So, whether you're lacing up your sneakers, calling out plays, or cheering from the stands, tune in for an episode that's as much about building character as it is about scoring points. This is Coach Steve, your guide through the wins, the losses, and the life lessons in between.

Send us a Text Message. We've witnessed countless moments where the specter of fear loomed over our young athletes, threatening to overshadow their potential. This episode is an ode to the courage it takes to step onto the court and face that invisible opponent. Through the lens of recent nail-biting tournaments, Coach Steve dissects the psychological battleground our children navigate in competitive sports, and why embracing discomfort is pivotal for growth. The conversation dives into the heart of what it means to confront and conquer fear, and how these experiences shape the identity of our young competitors. Join us in celebrating the bravery of every child who dares to compete, reminding us all that the true victory lies in rising above the challenges. This week's narrative wraps up with a powerful message for parents and coaches: our own emotional mastery is a cornerstone for our children's success in pressure-cooker environments. The echoes of a tumultuous volleyball season serve as a backdrop to discuss how leadership and emotional stability from adults can make or break the experience for our aspiring athletes. As we bid farewell to another intense season, the insights shared here aim to arm you with strategies to bolster the mental fortitude of our young champions, ensuring they walk away with not just medals, but invaluable life lessons in resilience and positivity.

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever stood at the crossroads of personal loss and professional victory, feeling the weight of both in equal measure? I'm back, Coach Steve, and in this raw and heartfelt exchange, I'm sharing the tumultuous journey that's kept me from you, blending tales of family heartache with the exuberant wins of the volleyball season. My daughters, true champions in their age groups, have been a beacon of light, and together, we've been threading faith into the framework of our sports community, one prayer at a time. This conversation is about embracing those life-tossed curveballs and finding solace in our collective strength. As we approach Easter, a time of reflection and renewal, I take you with me through the trials of setting boundaries in the dynamic dance of life, sports, and faith. The power of honest dialogue is evident as we navigate these waters, sometimes choppy with competing priorities. Meanwhile, the surprising Chicago trip proves to be a fertile ground for hope. What began as an intimate hotel service bloomed into a full-blown spiritual revival, reminding us that when we lead with trust and faith, even the most unexpected places can be transformed into hallowed ground. Towards the end, I draw upon the profound message of the resurrection to inspire us to live our faith loudly and proudly, in every act, every day. Remember, it isn't just about the church walls; it's about the church within us. As I wrap up this episode, full of gratitude for our burgeoning program, I invite you to join me in looking forward to more spiritual unity at Cornerstone Athletics. It's a powerful reminder that when we gather in faith, we are unstoppable. So, stay tuned and stay blessed, because this journey? It's only just beginning.

Send us a Text Message. How often do we consider the true essence of time? Are we making the most of the precious moments we have? That's precisely what we grapple with in this riveting episode. As parents and coaches, we delve into the principle of cultivating high expectations, especially in sports, with the hope that our children grasp this ethos and apply it across all facets of life. We also tap into our personal experiences and methods in instilling these expectations, hoping to provide an intriguing perspective. Does setting expectations within sports shape the future of young athletes? Our exploration of this topic reveals a resounding yes. We discuss the stark financial realities of professional sports, the significant role of leadership in shaping a player's career, and the importance of maintaining a good reputation. Beyond that, we ponder how these expectations help athletes not only in their game but in life beyond the court or field. We believe that sports is more than just a game; it's an opportunity to build character, learn crucial skills, and ultimately, realize potential. So, tune in and let's explore the power of expectations together.

Send us a Text Message. Can the principles that have led you to success as an athlete be used to inspire your children to thrive in sports and life? Step into our world as my wife and I, both former division one athletes, share our experiences and insights, including how to avoid projecting our experiences onto our children, and instead adjusting our methods to fit their individual needs. We cover the importance of setting expectations, both at home and in the sports field. We talk about age-appropriate expectations that start with simple rules like listening to the teacher and having control over attitude and effort. Emphasizing that these expectations should be achievable, we underline the importance of granting children the independence to meet them. We also delve into the importance of instilling a strong work ethic, taking ownership of both successes and failures, and the impact of negative self-talk. We end by addressing the trickier side of youth sports – setting expectations and holding our children accountable. We share insights on monitoring your child’s love for the game, not just the fun, and how to stay abreast of their abilities. And while the journey as a parent is not always straightforward, we share our approach to finding the right balance between extending grace and maintaining accountability. So, join us and discover how to challenge, stretch, and set your children up for success in sports and beyond.

Send us a Text Message. Have you taken a moment to consider the dramatic changes in today's youth sports culture? What are the implications of this shift from neighborhood little leagues to elite clubs on our children? In our latest episode, we expose the reality of the so-called "soft era of kids," and how we, as parents, can step up to build resilience in our young athletes. Through an honest assessment of the challenges of parenting in the youth sports realm, we reveal the necessity of accepting that not all games will lead to a ribbon and how to choose the right environment for our kids. We emphasize the importance of teaching our children the value of hard work and instilling a habit of health and fitness early on to not only enhance their performance in sports, but also set them up for success in life. This episode is a valuable resource for parents navigating their child's journey in sports and beyond. It's time to take responsibility, parents. Let's raise children who are not just good at sports, but are also prepared for life's challenges.

Send us a Text Message. Have you ever considered how visibility plays a crucial role in your life and faith? Is it reflected in your actions or merely spoken of? This episode is a deep dive exploration into the concept of visibility in our lives, and how it is mirrored in our faith. Join me, Coach Steve, as I share my personal spiritual journey and reflect on profound life experiences. I delve into the eight elements of human existence: existential, environmental, relational, emotional, physical, spiritual, financial, and mental, and discuss how they intersect universally in our pursuit of health and wellness. I also give you a glimpse into the Redmond Success Group podcast which explores these elements, and the Cornerstone Athletics podcast, which seeks to foster a more holistic approach to sports. As we dig deeper, I share my recent realization of having a more legalistic and hypocritical attitude than I imagined. My wife's wisdom about recognizing the people God puts in front of us, rather than merely talking about God, inspires a deeper introspection. We explore the critical implications of the law, sin, grace, and faith in Galatians. This self-reflection focuses on how my belief in God should be visible in my actions and how I present myself rather than relying solely on words to communicate it. Lastly, I challenge you to self-reflect, asking what your deep-down motivations are. How can you become your best self? Find out how we can create tangible proofs of our faith and how our actions can positively impact our environment. Ultimately, this episode pushes for understanding our motivations and maximizing our potential. So, join me on this revelatory journey and let's strive to have a blessed day.

Send us a Text Message. Ever wondered how the spiritual dimension resonates within the sports world? Well, grab your headphones because we're about to illuminate how the transformative power of God's love influences athletes, coaches, and parents. We're back after a whirlwind couple of months, from nabbing fifth place at USA Volleyball Nationals in Minneapolis and third at AAU Nationals in Orlando, to wrestling with real estate chaos and hitting the road from Orlando to Kansas City. Oh, and did we mention our foray into the realm of podcasting? It's been a wild ride, but a valuable one, teaching us the importance of consistency and the perils of biting off more than we can chew. Get ready to step out of your comfort zone as we reflect on the less apparent aspects of sports - teamwork, communication, and the courage to get a little uncomfortable. We'll discuss how sports can be an imprint of God's love and how we can bring His vision into reality. We'll touch upon the multi-trillion-dollar sports industry, our role in it with Cornerstone Athletics, and our vision to align the world of sports more closely with the Kingdom of Heaven. So, join us as we navigate the spiritual side of sports and strive to make sports a reflection of God's divine love.

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Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve dives into some of the "other" layers that make sports difficult and how you can become aware of them and help your athletes grow and thrive through the adversity sports bring!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve debriefs the MEQ National Qualifier in St. Louis and talks about the "other stuff" that comes with sports and the importance of helping your athlete know how to think about sports!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve discusses three questions you need to ask yourself to better navigate this current climate of sports.

Send us a Text Message. We are still talking about how to build champions on this episode! Coach Steve dives into what we can do as parents to help build a championship level athlete!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve kicks off Season 2 discussing that when you are building champions it is imperative you know that your mission is bigger than sports!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve breaks down the experience from NIT Triple Crown in Kansas City this past weekend. Tune in to hear how the team did.

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve's girls are playing some big competition this weekend at the NIT Triple Crown Volleyball tournament. Tune is as he discusses some of the conversations he had with them!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve discussed the important role parents play in helping their kids be prepared for BIG competition.

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve discusses the importance of never forgetting that we are preparing our athletes for BIG competition!

Send us a Text Message. Coach Steve brings the No Excuses mentality to the parents! Tune in as he discusses how parents are an important part of the leadership circle of sports!