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The Champagne Girls’ Guide to Living the Life You Love Podcast

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Each Sunday, Bonnie, Lauren, and Beth get together on one of their historic porches and discuss how they are creating lives they love on the other side of divorce. Visit BonnieHHurst.com for episode notes.

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United States

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Women

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Each Sunday, Bonnie, Lauren, and Beth get together on one of their historic porches and discuss how they are creating lives they love on the other side of divorce. Visit BonnieHHurst.com for episode notes.

Language:

English


Episodes
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YOLO or The Art of Saying No: Embracing Spontaneity and Finding Joy

4/13/2025
In this episode, we dive into the art of saying no to create space for spontaneous and joyful experiences. Join us as we explore the balance between commitments and the freedom to embrace life's unexpected adventures. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, we discuss how freeing up time can lead to a more fulfilling and connected life. Whether it's enjoying spontaneous outings or revisiting the cherished moments of our youth, this episode encourages listeners to open up to the beauty of unplanned experiences. Tune in as we share stories of joy, reflection, and the importance of creating magic in everyday life.

Duration:00:41:17

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Season 2: Episode 3: Dating - Bumbling through the apps

2/26/2025
In this episode, we delve into the exhilarating yet often daunting world of modern dating. We share our personal experiences and insights from the whirlwind of online dating apps, highlighting the balance between the excitement of meeting new people and the frustration of finding genuine connections. We discuss the challenges women face in navigating the digital dating landscape, including maintaining safety, preserving privacy, and dealing with the often superficial nature of app interactions. Our conversation also touches on the realities of dating after divorce, the importance of knowing and being oneself, and the need for humor and openness in seeking meaningful relationships. Join us as we explore how our expectations and needs have evolved, and why finding a partner organically can sometimes bring more joy. We conclude with anecdotes about our journeys and encouragement for those embarking on their own path to love and companionship.

Duration:00:52:30

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Season 2: Episode 2: YOLO Life Without Regrets

2/16/2025
In this episode, we dive into the concept of "You Only Live Once" (YOLO) and what it truly means to live life without holding back. The hosts discuss personal stories and experiences, emphasizing the importance of taking chances, spending wisely, and making memories. From cherishing family moments to embracing new opportunities, this episode inspires listeners to live authentically and pursue happiness on their own terms. They share reflections on past decisions, missed opportunities, and the wisdom gained over time. The conversation also explores how societal norms and expectations impact our choices and how breaking free from them can lead to a more fulfilling life. Whether it's traveling more, nurturing relationships, or finding peace within, the episode encourages you to prioritize what truly matters and find joy in everyday moments.

Duration:00:50:44

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Season 2: Happy New Year 2025

12/30/2024
Join us for a lively discussion as we step into 2025, reflecting on the meaningful words and themes that will shape our year. In this episode, we dive into the significance of choosing words over resolutions, aiming for attainable goals, and redefining self-preservation. Our hosts share personal insights and experiences in prioritizing what truly matters, from clearing out physical and emotional clutter to cherishing relationships that bring positivity. We explore the idea of creating spaces that reflect our individual journeys, moving beyond past expectations. As we embrace the theme of simplification, we look ahead to a year filled with mindful choices and the joy that comes from living a life in tune with our personal values. It's about designing a 2025 that works for us, instead of striving to fit into traditional molds. Cheers to new beginnings and the power of simplicity!

Duration:00:47:06

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Holiday 2024 Episode

12/18/2024
Join us tonight as we delve into the joys and challenges of navigating holiday traditions, especially during the bustling winter season that includes Christmas. Discover tips for managing these festive times, whether decorating at home, attending parties, or catching up with old friends. We also explore how to handle being single or dating during the holidays, sharing personal experiences and advice on embracing this special time of year. From evaluating past choices to planning for an enriching start to the new year, we cover it all. Tune in for insights on balancing traditional family customs with new changes, and hear heartwarming stories on adapting to transitions such as divorce or adjusting to a partner's holiday routine. Don't miss out on this enriching discussion full of laughs, reflections, and more! And remember, as you navigate your own holiday season, focus on embracing all the changes that come your way, and cherish the moments that truly matter.

Duration:00:41:48

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Episode 44: The Importance of Fun

6/20/2024
This episode delves into the significance of having fun amidst busy lives. Our hosts share their exhilarating weekend experience at the international event, Le Dîner en Blanc, held in Decatur. They describe the joy of dressing in white, dining at a secret location, and dancing the night away with friends. They reflect on the necessity of carving out time for fun, especially during challenging phases like divorce or intense work periods. The conversation touches on the balance between self-care and obligations, and how making time for joy can rejuvenate the soul and enhance creativity. Join us as we explore how these moments of joy and connection can make life feel more vibrant and fulfilling.

Duration:00:43:37

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Champagne Split 10: Top 10 (or more) Fun Summer Activities for Kids

6/14/2024
In this episode, we dive into our favorite top 14 summer activities to keep kids entertained and engaged. Whether you have your kids full-time or part-time during the summer, these fun and creative ideas are perfect for making the most of the sunny season. From enrolling kids in various camps like theater and art, to ensuring they spend quality time with cousins and extended family, we've got you covered. We also discuss the joys of library visits, movie outings, and exploring local attractions such as botanical gardens and caves. Join us as we share these delightful summer ideas and ensure your kids have a memorable and fun-filled season!

Duration:00:11:24

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Episode 43: Is marriage still the goal?

6/6/2024
In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the question: "Now that we are single, does marriage again have to be our goal?" The conversation explores the evolving roles of women in society, the changing perceptions of marriage, and the newfound independence that many women experience post-divorce.

Duration:00:42:39

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Champagne Split 9: Top 14 Relationship Non-Negotiables: What We Will Never Tolerate Again

5/30/2024
Welcome to another engaging episode! This time, we're diving into our top 10 non-negotiables for relationships, whether they be romantic or platonic. Join us as we discuss the critical aspects we will no longer tolerate in any relationship.

Duration:00:12:34

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Episode 42: Kinkeeping

5/25/2024
In this episode, the hosts dive into the concept of "kin keeping" as defined by a New York Times article. Kin keeping involves creating and carrying on family traditions, buying gifts, coordinating care, and performing emotional caregiving, tasks predominantly done by women. The discussion centers around the invisible labor that women contribute to maintaining family bonds and traditions, even post-divorce. The hosts share personal stories about their weekends, including wedding planning, adopting a new dog, and navigating family responsibilities. They explore how kin keeping continues to play a role in their lives, even after significant changes like divorce, and the challenges of setting boundaries while maintaining family connections. They also touch on the importance of wills and planning for the future to ensure their children are cared for, and the emotional labor involved in managing these responsibilities. The episode concludes with reflections on favorite family traditions and the importance of creating magical moments for their children.

Duration:00:41:05

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Episode 41: Recovering positive body image after divorce

5/16/2024
In an enlightening episode, the hosts share an intimate conversation on battling for a positive body image post-divorce, sharing their personal experiences, and shedding light on the damaging impacts of hurtful comments and unrealistic expectations during their marriages. The discussion delves into how these negative comments can shatter confidence and self-esteem, resonating even post-divorce.

Duration:00:30:10

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Champagne Split 8: Top 10 Positive Consequences of Divorce

5/2/2024
Join our candid conversation about breaking free from toxicity and rediscovering the essence of life after a divorce. This episode elaborates on the top 10 positive consequences of divorce that our hosts have personally experienced, leading to self-empowerment, self-discovery, and overall personal growth. Learn about the importance of self-love, the newfound confidence in embracing financial independence, the liberty to make choices that serve one's interests, the luxury of valuable time to explore new hobbies and passion, and the freedom to lead life according to one's rhythm. Plus, get insights into the massive transformation in relationships and attitude towards life that arises post-divorce, including building healthier relationships, embodying resilience, and adopting a positive outlook towards life. This conversation is filled with heartwarming insights, encouraging messages, and actionable advice to navigate what may be a difficult phase for many people. The positivity and prominent self-realization in each shared experience ensure listeners will feel empowered and inspired to find their own silver linings amidst the fog of a life-altering event like divorce. So, whether you've personally experienced a breakup or just need a little pick-me-up, this awe-inspiring conversation will help you appreciate life's ups and downs and the many beautiful opportunities they present. Cheers to life's little wins that accumulate to create the inspirational story of your life!

Duration:00:14:10

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Episode 39: Reconnect with Old Friends

4/25/2024
The hosts dive into personal journeys of reconnecting with old friends during and after a divorce. Sharing their engaging narratives and life lessons, they bring to the fore the pivotal role friendships play during the challenging times of personal trials. They reflect on the reconnection, redefinition of self, and the emotional rescues their friends have offered during the hardships that come with a divorce. What shines through is the profound understanding these friendships have, undeterred by daily expectations or phases of life. From grade school friends to college buddies who turned into soulmates, each relationship brings unique insights and valuable lessons to their lives. The hosts highlight the concept of friends as mirrors to your past and present soul, guiding you to reflect on your dreams and aspirations and rediscover your future. A poignant part of this heartfelt conversation revolves around reminiscing about instances when the warmth and support of these friends helped navigate through the entangled emotions of divorce. These vivid discussions serve as a comforting reminder for listeners to value and seek support from their circle of friends, flipping the narrative from personal trials to finding strength and happiness through friendships. Listen in for an enlightening conversation, infused with shared experiences, valuable lessons, and an infectious dose of optimism as they illustrate the quintessential balance between personal and professional lives. Brace yourself for an episode that goes beyond personal struggles, underscoring the power of friendship as an unlikely yet potent source of strength.

Duration:00:32:14

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Episode 38: How do you figure out what you want?

4/18/2024
In this captivating episode of our podcast, we present a heartwarming discussion featuring three accomplished women. They engage in an open and meaningful conversation about life, purpose, and happiness. Join us in exploring the highs and lows of their personal journeys, as they share how they navigated through life's hurdles including career changes, dealing with empty nest syndrome, facing divorces, overcoming addictions, and more. Dive deep into their insightful reflections on the pivotal question of, "How do you figure out what you want in life?" Learn how they discovered their paths towards inner happiness, going through distinct career choices in education and nursing, and building joyful post-divorce lives centered around fun and meaningful connections. Discover how these resilient women navigated post-divorce life, stressing on the power of self-belief, the value of constant learning, and the importance of personal growth. Learn about their experiences with personality tests that served as tools for self-discovery and a roadmap to a deeper understanding of their true selves. Explore the phenomenal power of friendship that formed amidst challenges and listen to the speakers share experiences about shared passions for food, music, and more. Embrace the encouraging reminder that it's never too late to find happiness, and be inspired by the stories of resilience, self-discovery, and the beauty of genuine friendships. As the episode unfolds, our speakers delve deeper into life, personal achievements, interests, and future goals. They share personal anecdotes along with valuable insights that may guide you on your personal journey and help you refine your approach to attain your desire from life. Tune in to be a part of this exciting exploration of life stages and the concept of "improving oneself". You will hear the speakers encourage you to surround yourself with people who share common passions and exert a positive influence on your life. Be a part of their journey as they share plans for maintaining work-life balance. Listen and be inspired to redefine your life goals and reshape your journey ahead.

Duration:00:29:21

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Champagne Split 7: Living Life to the Fullest

4/10/2024
In this profoundly touching episode, the speakers delve into the heart of what it means to live life to the fullest. Through sharing personal narratives about finding pleasure in the ordinary, cultivating a nurturing home, and valuing relationships, they unfold their unique conceptions of a fulfilled life. The discussions journey through the twisted trails of tribulations such as divorce, bereavement, and heart-rending experiences, offering perspectives on how life's harsh lessons shape one’s viewpoint on living fully. The pivotal role of mental and emotional health is underscored, alongside treasuring the comforts of home and populating our surroundings with elements that bring joy. The conversation focuses on the philosophy of thriving rather than just merely surviving. By highlighting their talks with vivid and inspiring anecdotes, precious moments of everyday life emerge - from the joy of refreshing blossoms to relishing a coffee on a backyard swing - all contributing to a life lived fully. The narrative is punctuated with a heartwarming tale from Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, and the story of a friend's 'Year of Yes', inviting listeners to embrace new experiences by saying "yes" more frequently. The discussions celebrate the individuality in each of us, encouraging us to indulge our passions, wander into unknown territories, and capture sources of joy in daily life. The speaker emphasizes the beauty of living in the present and advocates for steering clear of 'futurizing'. By sharing her experiences, she underscores the importance of undertaking necessary tasks, irrespective of them seeming dull, leading to a productive life. She also talks about maintaining a sense of calm, staying focused on present tasks, and finding contentment in the subtler aspects of life. The narrative winds down with a discussion about the decision to trust the process. The speaker acknowledges the discomfort in embracing simplicity in life but puts forth an affirmative argument about not setting conditions on happiness. The episode concludes by reminding listeners to seize the day, capturing the essence of living in the present, and cherishing individual moments.

Duration:00:18:45

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Episode 37: Carpe Diem

4/4/2024
In this enlightening episode, we delve into the psychology behind choosing happiness and the profound impact it can have in one's life. Steeped in the insights of Harvard Professor, Arthur Brooks, this episode urges you to explore the power of 'acting how you want to feel'. We touch upon often overlooked ideas such as 'faking it until you make it' and talk about the potential pitfalls of excessive positivity. We also explore the connection between our reactions to life's trials and our future, discussing themes of worry, fear, and anxiety and how to convert these into positive contexts. Not only do we provide thoughtful discussions, but we also share personal anecdotes about optimism, tackling crises, achieving success through visualization, and more. We offer renewed understanding to long-standing wisdom and delve into philosophical classics. We connect with listeners through sincere conversations about daily life, reinforcing the idea that choosing happiness is not just an option but a lifestyle. The episode also interestingly looks into 'faking it until you make it' in the context of personal dreams and challenges. We discuss how altering personal spaces can bring in a fresh wave of energy and positivity. Through intimate talks circling around acceptance, attracting positivity, the power of neurodiversity, managing expectations and more, we promote the might of a positive mindset. In a deep-dive into choosing happiness, we share insights about decluttering life, fostering joy and prioritizing human connections. Shedding light on the link between external chaos and inner turmoil, we draw from personal experiences of overcoming life's obstacles with gratitude and positivity. The talk closes on an encouraging note reminding listeners to prioritize happiness above all else. Tune in to this heartwarming episode to discover the true art of choosing happiness.

Duration:00:42:50

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Champagne Split 6: Top 10 Staycation Ideas

3/29/2024
Gearing up for a staycation? Looking to transform your day-to-day into a riveting retreat without actually retreating? In this episode titled "Maximizing the Fun: Top 10 Spring Break Staycation Tips!" journey with us as we explore unique, affordable, and thrilling staycation ideas! Enjoy the leisure and relaxation of a getaway without the pricey tickets or strenuous travel. Get started with our picks, where we discuss binge-watching a new series, experimenting with new recipes, and treating yourself to luxurious dining experiences in local hotspots. Discover how you can maintain an active lifestyle at home, learn yoga or start any exercise regime you've been procrastinating on. Turn this leisure time into a productive period by decluttering, organizing your home, and finally dealing with things that have been bugging you forever. Pair this with some good reading, staying organized, prepping for obligations and you've got the perfect staycation! Finally, don’t forget to explore the hidden treasures within driving distance in your hometown. Our last - but not least - tip is a fun one, responsibly enjoy a leisurely day-time drink! Remember, a staycation is a vacation. Listen to us navigate this delightful space of relaxation, recreation, and rejuvenation within the comfort of your homes. Join us in this spirited and bubbly episode and make the most of your staycation this spring break! Tune in next week for more exciting ideas and engaging discussions. Happy staycation, and cheers to Champagne Sundays!

Duration:00:08:20

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Episode 36: Support needed - divorce is not taboo, it just is

3/21/2024
In this insightfully candid episode, our hosts delve deep into the emotionally-charged subject of divorce and its aftermath. Using their own personal experiences as a backdrop, they contemplate on societal views on divorce, the self-recrimination, and profound life changes that ensue such a transformative event. Beyond just impacting the individuals directly involved, they encourage listeners to understand the broad-reaching impact it has on those around them. Join us in this powerful discussion that peels back the layers on this taboo topic. In the journey through divorce, from the initial awkwardness to facing a plethora of personal and financial challenges, the hosts highlight the invaluable power of supportive friendships. They discuss the tricky social dynamics that twist and tremble in the wake of divorce, stressing on the potential transformative power of empathy and acknowledgment. The episode advocates for dispelling the stigmas surrounding divorce and underlines the importance of acceptance and non-judgmental support in times of upheaval. Sharing raw emotional aspects and real-life narratives, the discussion extends to co-parenting post-divorce, and the unique challenges it brings. It's a call to be more compassionate as friends and to extend grace and forgiveness during these challenging times. Listen to the heartwarming instances of unexpected support, unanticipated kindness, and unwavering solidarity that serve as lifelines amidst the struggles. Concluding with the empowering roles that families can play in this healing journey, and the life lessons learned from this whole ordeal, the episode leaves listeners with a resounding message. Amid the trials and tribulations surrounding divorce, it implores each one of us to become more empathetic and extend a hand of support. Be part of this profound journey of resilience, healing, and mutual support, shining a comforting light on the darkest hours of our lives.

Duration:00:45:22

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Episode 35: Closure - do you really need it?

3/14/2024
In this thought-provoking discussion, the focus lies on the importance of closure in relationships. Exploring the individual interpretations of closure and its prominent influence on the healing process after a relationship ends, this episode examines whether they truly need closure for recovery or find healing without a definite end to emotional journeys. Through stories of unfaithful partners and addiction struggles in loved ones, it uncovers the yearning for closure and debunks the myth of closure's dependence on the other party in a relationship. In the heart of the conversation, the revelation takes center stage that closure is a manifestation of self-love and dignity. It embodies the journey of self-worth recognition, self-respect, and realizing when a relationship chapter needs closure, no matter the involvement or lack thereof of the other party. Engaged deeply in this discourse of closure, you will find yourself reassessing your understanding and approach to closure in your relationships. Empowerment in Closure: Personal Stories of Healing and Moving On In this emotionally potent episode, speakers share their personal experiences of disintegrating marriages, the tough pathway to closure, and the setbacks from their partners that made ending relationships a challenging and painful process. Topics of attempting to salvage failing marriages, handling infidelity, forgiving, and finally accepting precede an illumination of the emotional journeys these individuals have traversed. The speakers articulate their periods of self-realization, emphasizing their significant role in bringing closure. They reflect on their exhaustive efforts to "fix" their relationships and express the relief in deciding to prioritize personal happiness and tranquility. By reclaiming control and making the difficult decision to move on from their past, they highlight the significance of learning self-love and setting boundaries in relationships. A strong narrative emerges from these personal stories about living life on one’s terms, notwithstanding heartbreak and betrayal. This raw and honest sharing of their experiences aims to inspire and support others navigating similar situations. The episode concludes on a hopeful note, with a discussion about their future plans, affirming a commitment to leading a fulfilling and love-filled life.

Duration:00:30:04

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Episode 34: The Rule of 100

3/7/2024
In this empowering episode, we dissect the wonders of 'Jay Bonacolta's Rule of 100' and its impact on our growth in various disciplines. Discover how dedicating just 18 minutes a day to a particular task can put you ahead of 95% of the world in that field. This all revolves around the crux of consistency and devotion. Unearth the ways in which daily investment of time can transform you into an expert in your desired domain. Dive deep into the discussion about 'body doubling' - a highly effective technique for overcoming Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) paralysis, and a mysterious productivity booster. Hear about how incorporating 'Bonacolta's Rule of 100' has dramatically changed our abilities, impacting areas as varied as art and physical fitness. We candidly talk about our own goals and which activities we're choosing to dedicate our 100 hours to in the year ahead. We stress the importance of meeting oneself where they're and taking intentional steps towards growth. Join us as we share our experiences with this rule in different arenas, be it office organization, painting, or even physical fitness. Listen in as we reflect on previous projects, evaluating their worth in terms of the coveted 100-hour investment. In this journey of creativity and self-improvement, we ponder upon our own struggles to find focus and dedication in our creative pursuits. Sharing a practical guide to exploring your creative instincts, we discuss particulars of drawing, painting, and trying out new mediums of art. Want to learn ice-skating, or dreaming of picking up a foreign language? Find inspiration to transform these fleeting thoughts into consistent actions. Relish in the beauty of new experiences, whether it's playing tennis or composing music. Understand the role of choosing your most productive time slots to channel your creativity. We invite you on this path of exploration and self-discovery. Embrace the challenge of balancing demanding day jobs with nurturing your personal creativity. With sneak peeks into varied lives - from motherhood and teaching, to directing plays and planning weddings, you might find pieces that deeply resonate with you. Ignite your curiosity about incorporating consistency into your creative journey. Consider this episode as your starter pack, let's commit to dedicating productive time each day to our passion projects.

Duration:00:32:51