I Missed Me

We often talk about wanting to change our lives… but what if the real shift happens when we finally let go of the person we used to be? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the grieving process of personal growth and why growth requires the end of your old self. From the discomfort of "losing yourself" to the beauty of rediscovery — this is a reminder that you aren't alone in feeling lost during your evolution. If you’ve ever felt like you’re in a transition period where you no longer fit into your old life but don't quite know who the "new you" is yet, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Let’s be real for a second: the "perfect time" is a myth we tell ourselves so we don't have to start. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, a goal, or a version of yourself that you’re dying to meet, but you’re waiting for the stars to align... this episode is your sign to be honest with yourself. Today, we’re breaking down why we procrastinate, how perfectionism is actually just fear, and how taking messy action completely changed my life. I’m sharing the raw truth about how I stopped waiting and started doing. No more "I'll start Monday." We’re starting now. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzure. Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We talk a lot about wanting better friendships… but what if the real shift happens when we become the friend we’re looking for? In this episode, we’re getting honest about friendship, self-awareness, and personal responsibility. From communication and boundaries to presence, empathy, and emotional maturity — this is a reminder that the relationships we attract often reflect the way we show up. If you’ve ever felt disappointed by friendships, outgrown certain people, or wondered why your connections don’t feel as deep or aligned as you want them to be, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What if the thing you’re most afraid of—being cringe, being judged, being misunderstood—is actually the key to your freedom? In this episode, we’re talking about why being cringe is being free and how letting go of other people’s opinions can completely change the way you show up in your life, your creativity, and your goals. From people-pleasing and overthinking to self-expression, confidence, and authenticity, this is a reminder that you don’t owe anyone a polished version of yourself. If you’ve ever held back from posting, creating, speaking up, or simply being yourself because of fear of judgment, this episode is for you. With Love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

January comes with a lot of noise. Pressure to reinvent yourself overnight, to have it all figured out, to wake up as a brand-new person just because the calendar changed. But what if that pressure is fake? In this episode, we talk about the truth behind January expectations, why having a bumpy start to the year is completely okay, and how growth doesn’t need a specific date to begin. You don’t need a perfect morning routine, a strict plan, or a dramatic reset to move forward. Sometimes, restarting looks like resting. Sometimes it looks like pausing. And sometimes it simply looks like choosing yourself again, whenever you’re ready. This episode is a reminder that you’re not behind, you’re not late, and you’re not failing. Your goals don’t expire in January. You’re allowed to begin again at any moment, in your own way, on your own time. Press play if you need permission to take your time, soften your expectations, and redefine what progress really means. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to I Missed Me. This feels like the right way to start the year: slow, honest, and real If you’re new here, hi, I’m Mafe. And if you’ve been here since the beginning, thank you for still choosing to listen. This podcast started in 2022 as a safe space for self-love, healing, and growth… but behind the scenes, I’ve been growing too, sometimes beautifully, sometimes painfully. But what I realized is this podcast has never been about perfection; it’s been about showing up as I am. This podcast has held me through so many phases of my life, and I’m so grateful I didn’t walk away from it. I love creating this space. I love connecting with you. And I love that we get to grow together, even when it’s messy. Thank you for being here. Thank you for listening. And here’s to starting the year gently—together. With love, Mafe. Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures== Our Sponsors: * Check out BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sometimes letting go feels like failure, like you didn’t try hard enough, like you’re walking away from something you were supposed to hold on to. In this episode, we talk about the truth behind letting go — of people, of situations, of old versions of yourself. Not from anger, not from bitterness, but from a place of honesty, self-respect, and trust. This conversation is for anyone who’s holding on because it feels safer than releasing. For anyone stuck in the in-between, grieving what was, questioning what’s next, and learning that peace doesn’t come from control, but from surrender. If you’re in a season of release, this episode is your reminder: it’s okay. You’re not losing, you’re making space. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: https://patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today’s episode, we dive into a truth most of us ignore: staying the same is actually harder than changing. We talk about why holding onto old versions of ourselves feels “safe,” even when they’re quietly breaking us, and why the pain of stagnancy is heavier than the fear of starting over. This episode is your reminder that discomfort doesn’t mean something is wrong; it often means you’re finally growing. If you’ve been feeling stuck, restless, or afraid to take the next step… this conversation will feel like a deep breath. You are allowed to change. You are allowed to evolve. And you are allowed to become someone new. A soft push for anybody who needs it today — because staying the same is harder, and your new life is waiting. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today’s episode, we talk about something so many of us avoid but eventually face: starting over. The endings we fear, the in-betweens that scare us, the unknown that makes us feel like everything is falling apart. But the truth is… starting over isn’t proof that you failed, it’s proof that you grew. It’s evidence that you were brave enough to choose yourself, even when it was uncomfortable. Beginning again requires so much courage, and you’re never actually starting from zero, you’re starting from everything you’ve survived.You’re not behind. You’re becoming. And you’re allowed to begin again — softly, slowly, and without explanation. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today’s episode, we dive into one of the most powerful shifts you can make in your life: appreciation. Appreciation as awareness, presence, softness, and self-respect. We talk about why what you appreciate, appreciates — and how noticing the small, quiet miracles around you completely rewires your mind, deepens your relationships, and brings you back home to yourself. This episode is a reminder that you can’t attract from lack—you attract from contentment, from noticing, from choosing to say “thank you” for even the simplest things. If you’ve been chasing, forcing, comparing, or doubting… this episode is your gentle reset. A slower breath. A softer perspective. A reminder that nothing is missing — and that appreciation is the energy that brings everything you want closer. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today’s episode dives deep into something we’ve all faced: heartbreak. But not the kind where you pretend you’re fine while still checking their stories at 2 AM. This one’s about actually getting over someone emotionally, mentally, spiritually. Because getting over someone isn’t about forgetting them — it’s about forgiving yourself, outgrowing who you were, and choosing peace over chaos. If your heart still hurts right now, this episode is your reminder that healing is happening — even when you can’t feel it yet. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We grow up believing love is something we find in another person that it’s something to search for, chase, or wait for. But love isn’t a destination or a single relationship. Love is everywhere. In this episode, we explore what it means to see love beyond romance — in friendships, in creativity, in kindness, in community, and within yourself. Love exists in every act of compassion, in the things that make you feel alive, and in the way you show up for the world. Love is not a person. Love is a force and it’s all around you. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When life feels heavy, it’s easy to believe that what you’re going through is all there is. But every storm eventually passes, and every chapter no matter how painful leads to another. In this episode, we talk about shifting perspective, finding light in dark seasons, and remembering that your story is still unfolding. You are not your struggles, your fears, or your mistakes. You are the strength that grows through them, the beauty that follows, and the peace that’s still on its way. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content — patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 💌 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever felt selfish for wanting more? more love, peace, recognition, time? But what if it means we finally understand our worth? In this episode, we’re talking about what it truly means to deserve more. More time for yourself, more care, more opportunities, and more love — from others and from yourself. You’ll learn how to set boundaries, ask for what you need, and let go of guilt around wanting better for yourself. It’s time to remember that you are enough, and that you are worthy of everything you dream of. Tune in to realign your mindset, raise your standards, and start claiming the life you truly deserve. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me. Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Growth means coming into terms with changes. In this episode, we talk about the quiet heartbreak of realizing that certain relationships no longer align with who you’re becoming and how letting go can be one of the most powerful forms of self-respect. If you’ve ever felt guilty for evolving or distancing yourself from old friendships, this one’s for you. Together, we’ll explore how to embrace change, release the weight of old expectations, and open space for the people and opportunities that truly match your next chapter. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content → patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials → https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We all know the feeling of hitting rock bottom, but sometimes life brings us to our knees so we can finally see things from a new angle. In this episode, we talk about what it truly means to fall apart and why that might be the most powerful thing that can happen to you. Because rock bottom isn’t the end; it’s the foundation for your comeback. From finding clarity in the dark to taking small steps toward healing, this is your reminder that no matter how far you’ve fallen, you can only go up from here. With love, Mafe, Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sometimes the only way to grow is by letting go. In this episode of I Missed Me, we explore what it means to outgrow old habits, relationships, and mindsets that no longer serve us. Growth isn’t just about adding more, it’s about creating space by releasing what holds you back, even when it feels uncomfortable. From shifting limiting beliefs to stepping away from relationships that no longer align, this conversation is an invitation to reflect on where you may be holding on too tightly. By outgrowing what doesn’t fit, you make room for transformation, new opportunities, and a version of yourself that feels more aligned, capable, and free. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below: https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MAFEANZURES for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out Kensington Publishing: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why do relationships end? Sometimes it’s a breakup that shakes your world, other times it’s the slow fading of a friendship, or simply realizing that you’ve outgrown someone you once loved deeply. In this episode, we explore the many reasons why relationships come to an end: misaligned expectations, lack of communication, personal growth, timing, external stress, and even the evolving way we connect in today’s world. Endings are not failures—they’re transitions. Together we’ll reflect on how to recognize when a relationship is no longer serving you, how to approach difficult conversations with compassion, and how to reframe endings as opportunities for transformation, healing, and deeper self-connection. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials below https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Breakups are never easy—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—but they can be the beginning of something transformative. In this episode, we talk about how heartbreak often leads to heart-growth, the clarity that comes from letting go, and how breakups can spark creativity, new beginnings, and stronger boundaries. If you’re navigating an ending right now, this conversation will help you reflect, reset, and see your breakup as a breakthrough. Healing isn’t linear, but every ending opens space for something new, and the version of you that’s waiting on the other side is stronger, wiser, and more authentic. With love, Mafe ✨ Check out all of I Missed Me https://beacons.ai/imissedme Sign up to our membership for exclusive content → https://patreon.com/Imissedme Follow me on socials https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We’ve all heard the phrase “right person, wrong time.” It sounds comforting, even poetic—but is it really true? In this wellness podcast episode, we dive into the psychology of relationships, heartbreak, and self-growth to uncover why this idea often keeps us stuck in the past. Instead of waiting for the “perfect timing,” we explore how alignment, emotional readiness, and shared priorities are what truly make love work. Through mindful reflection, we’ll talk about letting go of old narratives, moving on with clarity, and embracing personal growth after breakups. If you’ve ever found yourself replaying “what could’ve been,” this episode will help you reframe those feelings, release the romanticized version of the past, and focus on building healthy relationships that thrive in the present. I Missed Me is here to guide you with warmth, self-love, and honest conversations about healing and personal transformation. — With love, Mafe 💌 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content → patreon.com/Imissedme Check out my personal socials → https://beacons.ai/mafeanzures Our Sponsors: * Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzures Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy