The EXTRAORDINARY Family Life Podcast

This week's topic came from Rachel's recent experiences with their 13-year-old son who has been very motivated to help out around the house lately (because of very specific strategies, which she shares in this episode). AND she also received this question from her Family Systems & Charts community. "Hello there. I just started your chart system and we had our first meeting this week. It went well and I am finally seeing some good results. I have invested a lot of time in this. However, my 17-year-old daughter is not that motivated. What can I do?" In this episode, Greg and Rachel share super specific strategies that WORK, which they have used to raise their five teenagers (out of seven children). They'll explain how they have been able to inspire, motivate, and train their teens to WANT to help out around the house, work hard, and take responsibility -- all while maintaining and developing deep, lasting, positive relationships with their teens and now young adults. They expound on a technique they use called 'Privilege-Based Accountability' and the need for teens and young adults to practice life skills by earning privileges instead of giving them freely and automatically. Automatic privileges disempower children and teens and gives them a sense of entitlement, besides making them irresponsible and unmotivated to work. If you've ever wanted to raise hard-working, responsible, motivated, happy, and successful teens and young adults, then don't miss this episode with clear, actionable strategies that really work! We have the results to prove it. RESOURCES: Let Greg & Rachel help you in your extraordinary family life journey. ⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠@worldschoolfamily@greg.denningWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"Thanks for this episode. I wanted to get in touch to ask if you could share any advice for when your kids were younger and babies? I run a food business and recently had my first baby. I am struggling to manage the disparity between my big ambitions for my life and my reality. I want to be more capable... I want to take my business to the next level (which includes raising investment) I want to keep exercising and doing my favourite sports, I hate that my home is not organised and there is clutter around. I just don't know how to achieve all of this as I can't seem to find the time or the energy. Right now my partner is at home full time (looking for work) and is incredibly helpful both in the home and in caring for our daughter. But still I am not able to balance all of these things! The two that have slipped back are exercising and my home not being in great order and I'm barely keeping up at work. I sometimes would love to have a big family and you have really inspired me that this is possible (I have always thought about adoption) but then sometimes I think I can't even manage with one, how could I possibly manage more kids? I'd truly appreciate it if you could share any advice or discuss this on a podcast as there are so many young mums today struggling to manage the demands of modern day life, juggling work with younger kids and babies." If you are a mother (or father) of young children and often feel in overwhelm, then you need this episode -- especially if you are ambitious (like we are) and find yourself frustrated by your 'slow' progress as you pursue your dreams. We've been there! Listen to discover the strategies we've used to prevent and manage overwhelm and to accomplish WAY more than we ever thought possible. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"I'm writing to tell you both what an inspiration you've been to me over the last year! I've listened to almost all your podcasts and am working my way through the family systems and charts course. All your information is clear and practical, and it's made a huge difference in my level of overwhelm and what our family has been able to accomplish. My husband and I are taking our kids (age 13 & 11) to Europe for 3 months this August, and I was wondering if you would have any tips for travelling with teens and tweens. I'm curious about: How to find social opportunities and meet other families while travelling. I would love our kids to get out of the bubble of our small town and meet kids around the world!Any budgeting ideas for travelling Europe?Our kids are not homeschooled but I want to use this trip as an experiment in worldschooling/ homeschooling that we might continue when we get home. Any tips on introducing older kids to homeschooling would be appreciated. Would love to hear you speak more about the practicalities of travelling with a family!" Whether you plan to go to Europe for 3 months, or to take a day trip to a local town or the state next door, this episode is packed with practical and useful tips for making the most of your 'travel' experiences as a family. Listen now! And make sure to visit us at our new World School Family Resort in southern Portugal! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

As a follow-up question to a recent episode about helping your spouse 'show up' or invest in your extraordinary life, we were asked: "I love listening to your podcast. I'm a stay-at-home mom of four and I homeschool. I really wish I could live a little more extraordinarily as your family does, but alas, I have a spouse (who I of course love!) that doesn't feel the same. I desperately want to travel, but he doesn't. I long to do things a different way, but he doesn't. I like to read and listen to podcasts and all the like, but he doesn't. But honestly, my real question here was about myself. You said something on your recent episode that hit me where it hurts. It was about how much hard work it is (an extraordinary lifestyle) and how it's kind of laughable to you now what you used to consider 'hard work'. I'm slightly ashamed to admit this but I can't seem to handle much. I want to be a hard worker, but it seems like other people are able to handle so much more than me. I'm an introvert who is sadly socially awkward, needs lots of reflection time, and has never been encouraged or supported. I've never felt capable of much of anything. I want different for myself and definitely don't want my kids in this same boat!! What is your advice for increasing my capacity to be able to handle more? Especially without any encouragement or support. I want better! I just don't know how to get there." This is a FANTASTIC question and something we totally relate to as a former introverted, 'weak', shy, socially awkward girl or boy who never imagined that we would be coaching, hosting a podcast, or traveling the world with our seven children. Listen to this episode to learn how we were able to overcome these 'limiting factors' that kept us from living a more extraordinary life. Discover how we built a foundation of positive habits using clarity, focus, and prevention so that we can direct more of our energy toward achieving the life of our dreams instead of existing in survival mode. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

This much-needed episode addresses something we've been concerned about, thinking about, and researching for years regarding ADHD/ADD in adults and children. Based on our own experience (having at least 3 kids with ADHD, and at least one of us -- Greg 😁) and experience gained by working with thousands of clients -- plus the added perspective of traveling to 50+ countries which provides a look at the way people do things around the world -- we share some unique and paradigm-shifting perspectives on ADHD and what it means for parents, children and families. We talk about 'labels', diagnoses, 'drugs' and medication, disorders, hunters vs. gatherers' brains and so much more -- in fact, we may end up killing some of your 'sacred cows'. Of course, we're not doctors and have no letters after our name so we obviously don't know anything. But this will be a fascinating listen nonetheless. Listen to this episode now! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning answer this question: "Wondering if you have advice for someone who has been trying to pour everything into life/marriage to make it extraordinary but the spouse is not showing up and 'being the man' as Greg has defined. If they try, they relapse or it seems like the bare minimum is done. It has been years of this and it feels like it’s holding us back from an extraordinary life. Wondering your thoughts on handling situations like that when it feels like you have tried everything and given it time." The truth is an extraordinary marriage requires work. But Greg and Rachel Denning tackle the all too common dilemma: what to do when one spouse is giving their all to make their marriage extraordinary, but the other isn't stepping up. They delve into the essence of a thriving marriage, emphasizing the power of daily choices and the need for 'extraordinary' effort (and why 'good' is not good enough). Greg and Rachel stress the importance of utilizing the right tools (in the right way) even if you've 'tried everything' -- and persisting through challenges. They explain the issue of 'collusion' and destructive, self-sabotaging patterns in relationships and explain how to break free from them. Rachel highlights the significance of personal accountability and understanding the differences between men and women -- men need respect and women need to feel cherished -- for fostering a healthy partnership. They urge spouses to 'bring the tide' and become agents of change in their relationships through self-improvement, emphasizing the effect 'bringing the tide' can have on spouses. Offering practical advice, the Dennings present a roadmap for enhancing marriages even if you're the 'only one' -- with a warning against heeding misguided counsel (like Ruby Franke). Key Takeaways: Timestamps: RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠The Empowered Wife Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠ ⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠ World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

On Instagram, I saw a reel that stated "Myth: Sex is a need. Fact: Sex is a desire, not a need." "All of us can live without sex; we cannot live without water, food, or belonging." I had to disagree and responded: "It depends on how you define 'need'. For survival, no. For connection, bonding, and love -- yes, it's a need. Can you imagine if you're husband said, "You don't NEED me to talk to you. It's just a desire' and then went days, weeks, or months without talking because it's not a 'need'? You would feel pretty neglected. So if you want an extraordinary relationship then sex -- and talking -- are NEEDS.' While the argument may be true that 'needs' are ONLY things that we can't live without -- water, food, belonging -- it's inaccurate when we're talking about the surviving -- not to mention the THRIVING -- of our marriage relationship. Yes, people can live without sex. And talking. But an extraordinary marriage cannot. Of course, there are extremes when sex in marriage is not an option (injury, postpartum, old age). But we're not talking about those rare instances. We're talking about marriages where couples CAN have sex but are NOT having it. And I get it. As a woman who once *hoped* to find evidence that would convince my husband we never had to have sex again, I know how relieving it can be to believe that his need for sex is not real or is some how wrong or unrealistic. But it's just not true. Men (and women) want and need intimacy, but for some (usually men) their deepest intimacy takes the form of sex. And that's OK! And when you learn to use both sex and communication together they create an eternal circle of connection between spouses. Listen to this episode now so you can begin to see sex as an OPPORTUNITY for connection, not a burden or obligation. When you have this paradigm shift then everything changes. And you finally discover the key to building the relationship you've always wanted. This topic is further expounded on with these episodes: #148 What Wives Need to Know about Husbands' (Sex Drive) and What Men Need to Understand about Themselves#150 The Sex-quel. Follow-up Sex Episode with Rachel Denning#151 What Husbands NEED to Know About their Wives#224 How (& WHY) to Have Sex 3-6 Times a Week EVEN with Kids, Businesses, Homeschool, Jobs, Activities, and MoreMasturbation & Cheap Sexual Acts are a Poor Substitute for Real Connection ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

A member of my 28-Day Challenge coaching program asked: "I'm curious: what do your kids do for work or how do they learn work ethic? Our oldest is almost 16 and starting a job this summer which is flexible (thank goodness) but as much as she and our family go places we are trying to make sure we're home for part of the summer so she can get hours at that job and earn some money! I know there are ways to earn outside a typical job: do you have a list of ideas for me? We considered selling some of her crafty works on Etsy and she's done babysitting jobs, but I don't see those online options really "paying off". When we consider doing yard work for others or house cleaning etc, I wonder how safe that is for her to go into homes alone... ...and I feel like our summers will be eaten up soon by our older kids trying to hold down jobs. My spouse feels it's so important for them to learn how to work for someone and they can work during the school year, but it would have to be a REALLY flexible employer. ;) I'd love any insight you (or others!) have." And... "Greg said once that his children WILL be wealthy when they grow up. What is it that gives him that kind of confidence (without of course giving them the money!😄)? What books have you read and are teaching concepts to your kids or having your kids read? I know you guys do things the "non-traditional" way, so maybe there's more there that I don't know about... It seems that most parents send their kids off into the world and tell them they have to work hard and hope they survive financially. I imagine our kids will struggle at times but that provides good and healthy lessons for them - do you include that part of growth on their own as something they will experience before they reach "wealthy"? And if they don't go the traditional route with jobs, what are they doing to create that wealth? Wealth isn't everything, but money is a necessary tool in our world and his comment just got me thinking... Along these lines, what are your thoughts on Dave Ramsey's teachings, like 'The Total Money Makeover'? (It's not on Greg's list under business/money.) Tell me more! :)" Fantastic and very relevant questions for anyone who is raising children, which we answer in this episode in surprising ways -- such as discouraging our children from getting jobs, encouraging them to BECOME, buy, and acquire assets, and teaching them money psychology, wealth and abundance mindsets, and how to be entrepreneurs and investors. We also address the potential dangers of youth going into homes alone -- and how to protect against it. PLUS better ways to teach children and teens 'work ethic' and to do hard things. And we talk about how programs like Dave Ramsey's are geared toward obtaining or maintaining the middle class -- not toward creating generational wealth. Don't miss this powerful episode that could alter your family's finances for generations to come. RESOURCES: The Science of Getting RichMoney: Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom Get our recommended book lists (including more on money psychology, abundance, and wealth): ⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠ Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠ World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"I wanted to know what you guys think about screen time... I stopped letting my son (6) watch but then we reintroduced it as my husband said that if it’s in a foreign language it can be beneficial exposure to the language... We limited it to an hour, but I feel like it is too stimulating and it affects his behaviour. It feels like that is all he can think about sometimes. I haven’t read much about it, but I think it’s not good for their brains it’s too addictive." A fantastic question and concern for all parents. In this episode, we dive into the complicated and real challenges facing us as parents -- and individuals -- as we seek to navigate new territory -- being the first people in the history of the world trying to raise children with so many screens. So how do we do it --effectively? What dangers are we facing? What opportunities? How young is 'too young' to let kids use screens? How much is 'too much' screen time? And how do we ensure, as parents and role models, that we are setting a good example of technology use for our children? We answer all these questions and more to help you teach your kids that screens are 'tools not toys' and that we can maintain mental, emotional, and physical health when we use devices responsibly. Listen now! RESOURCES: Glow Kids: How Screen Addiction Is Hijacking Our Kids - and How to Break the Trance Ready Player One The Social DilemmaA Million Miles in a Thousand Years Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

It wasn't too long ago that I would have been hesitant to make such a bold statement -- that wokesim is a dangerous cult. That's because I have many beliefs that are in line with the underlying viewpoints, such as open-mindedness, acceptance, and tolerance. But after lots of study, research, and observation over the past year or two, and, being presented with multiple 'case studies' of woke ideology gone wrong... Plus combining that with books we've been reading such as Crime and Punishment, Anna Karenina, Brave New World, and The Psychology of Totalitarianism... We've come to discover that sometimes virtues can go to far and become vices. This is why we now feel passionate and confident about saying that 'wokeism is a cult that is destroying society'. Why a cult? ALL religions first began as cults, until they reached a tipping point in membership. But cult members share beliefs, practices, words, phrases, and ideologies with each other. They can identify one another by their signals, signs, FB profiles, preferred pronouns, and the flags they fly -- just like members of other cults or religions. Unfortunately, what began as virtues of compassion, anti-racism, and tolerance are starting to go too far in dangerous ways -- resulting in loss of life, increased crime, and destruction of property and the basic frameworks of society. We (all of us) are watching it unravel before our eyes -- IF we pay close attention and know where to look for red flags. And it's time for us to stand up and speak out. Listen now to this very important episode. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

It wasn't too long ago that I would have been hesitant to make such a bold statement -- that wokesim is a dangerous cult. That's because I have many beliefs that are in line with the underlying viewpoints, such as open-mindedness, acceptance, and tolerance. But after lots of study, research, and observation over the past year or two, and, being presented with multiple 'case studies' of woke ideology gone wrong... Plus combining that with books we've been reading such as Crime and Punishment, Anna Karenina, Brave New World, and The Psychology of Totalitarianism... We've come to discover that sometimes virtues can go to far and become vices. This is why we now feel passionate and confident about saying that 'wokeism is a cult that is destroying society'. Why a cult? ALL religions first began as cults, until they reached a tipping point in membership. But cult members share beliefs, practices, words, phrases, and ideologies with each other. They can identify one another by their signals, signs, FB profiles, preferred pronouns, and the flags they fly -- just like members of other cults or religions. Unfortunately, what began as virtues of compassion, anti-racism, and tolerance are starting to go too far in dangerous ways -- resulting in loss of life, increased crime, and destruction of property and the basic frameworks of society. We (all of us) are watching it unravel before our eyes -- IF we pay close attention and know where to look for red flags. And it's time for us to stand up and speak out. Listen now to this very important episode. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & YouthWorld School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

In this unique episode, I'm sharing a coaching session from my ⁠28-Day Challenge⁠ because Greg is currently trekking to the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro with four of our teens and a group of 18 other people. In this coaching session (recorded live) we answer questions from members of the group such as: As we answer these questions (and more) we share powerful insights about: Don't miss this powerful episode and a sneak peek into a live coaching session with me and Greg! If you want to join our live sessions and ask us your questions, then become a member of the ⁠28-Day Challenge⁠ today! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

In this unique episode, I'm sharing a coaching session from my ⁠28-Day Challenge⁠ because Greg is currently trekking to the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro with four of our teens and a group of 18 other people. In this coaching session (recorded live) we answer questions from members of the group such as: As we answer these questions (and more) we share powerful insights about: Don't miss this powerful episode and a sneak peek into a live coaching session with me and Greg! If you want to join our live sessions and ask us your questions, then become a member of the ⁠28-Day Challenge⁠ today! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠⁠⁠Android⁠⁠⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"I am wondering if I can expect more from my kids than I expect from husband? He has ADHD so he "gets distracted" easily and spends hours a day looking at news stories with his phone. Can I expect my teens to go on a phone diet [aka device fast] even though my husband is a poor role model? My husband hates nagging, I realized early in our marriage, and we have argued many times in the past about me wanting to expect more of him. Tired of arguing, I got to the point of leaving him alone. However, my kids need to learn good habits so I wonder if I can do work with them despite my husband's negative habits?" A fantastic question to an all-too-common family problem. Can we expect our children to live to 'higher standards' than one of the parents in the family? That's what we address in the episode, using an example from our personal life, along with experiences working with clients. We also touch on why 'ADHD is a label that lies' and what's really going on instead. AND we give additional strategies that are more effective than nagging to help encourage and inspire your spouse to 'step it up'. This applies to encouraging husbands AND wives. Don't miss this powerful episode that will inspire you to 'bring the tide' in your family. RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. ⁠Be The Man app on iOS⁠⁠Android⁠⁠Be The Man 7-Day Challenge.⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠28-Day Challenge⁠⁠Be The Man Coaching & Tribe⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read MomsRecommended Reading List for Parents & Youth --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

If you're like me, then there's probably been a time when you've felt like this: "...you're convincing me [to change my life]! And I know I have some development to do, but I start to feel so much lack sometimes when I listen to your episodes! 😉 Like there is so much to do and change that it seems it will take too long and we are starting so late...stuff like that. I also need to still believe that everyone is on a journey and it is OK if we are far behind the ideal (that's how I feel even though I've come so far)... [And] my husband has a hard time listening to these podcast episodes because he feels that the ideal is pushed so hard that there is no room for grace. But when I spend time with you guys I know that's not how you intend it to come across and not who you are.... I rambled on but I really respect you and your work and how much goodness you're putting out in the world. I'm inspired and depressed by your examples all at the same time 😁😁" We (Greg and I) can relate to this. We have felt EXACTLY the same way, many times throughout our life as we've pursued our dreams. That's because being exposed to an IDEAL causes you to feel 'depressed', overwhelmed, and insufficient. It's the nature of coming face-to-face with a vision of who you could be -- if only you face your fears and pursue your own greatness. So what do you do when you're filled with both feelings of inspiration and inadequacy? We walk through it in this episode and explain the approach we have taken -- and are currently taking -- as we continue to pursue bigger and bolder dreams on the journey of creating an extraordinary family life. Listen now! RESOURCES: Let us help you in your growth journey. Be The Man app on iOSAndroidBe The Man 7-Day Challenge.Family Systems & Charts28-Day ChallengeBe The Man Coaching & Tribe --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

First, let us start by explaining what we're NOT saying in this episode. EVERY family should not homeschool. But *most* families should (we explain what that means). And NO, homeschooling does not automatically guarantee certain outcomes. There will still be TONS of work and intentional effort involved to produce the desired results. However, if you have an elevated vision of what you want your family life and legacy (and children's education) to be like: ...then homeschooling (or alternative schooling) may be the ONLY way to effectively achieve those extraordinary ends. The truth is, government (aka public) schooling is NOT getting the job done (for the most part). As Jordan Peterson recently said, "The education system -- K-12 and college -- is one of the most corrupt systems on the planet." It's time to rethink your approach to education especially if you want to create something in your family life that is BETTER than mediocre.... even if you think your current situation is pretty 'good' (we'll explain why good is the enemy of extraordinary). Listen now to this paradigm-shifting episode. If you have teens and want to homeschool high school, make sure to check out our Habits for a Successful Life online class and Mentoring Accountability Program. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

As we begin the New Year and pursuing new goals, this timely episode shares a real-life *happening now* obstacle to pursuing our dream (to buy a chateau in France) -- getting stuck and stranded in Casablanca, Morocco. We walk through WHY obstacles and roadblocks to your dreams happen, what to do about them, how to handle them in-the-moment, and most importantly, how to overcome them so you can continue pursuing your goals and dreams. If you've ever set a big goal and failed to achieve it -- or became discouraged and disheartened, wondered if it's 'not meant to be' or if God didn't want you to have/do/achieve it -- this episode is for you! Listen now for encouragement, inspiration, and practical tactics. RESOURCES Interested in more information about investing in or being a part of our Chateau Project? Send an email to greg@gregdenning.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

As we record this we're sitting in an Airbnb in Tangier, Morocco, living yet *another* of our family's dreams -- to road trip from Portugal to Morocco. Before this trip is over we'll travel from our home base in Portugal to the Sahara Desert in Morocco, having visited Ronda, Grenada, and Cordoba, in Spain, and Tangier, Chefchouen (the Blue City), Fes, Volubilis ancient ruins, Meknes, Casablanca, Marrakesh, Ait Ben Haddou and Zagora. We'll spend New Year's Eve beneath the stars of the desert with a bonfire and a Berber band, eating tajine and sand bread as we discuss The Alchemist and what it means to 'Live Your Personal Legend.' But this is just the most recent family dream that we've made come true. Last Christmas we dog sledded in Norway, saw the Northern Lights, took a one-reindeer-open sleigh ride, and visited the Christmas markets before taking a train ride and Christmas cruise from Sweden to Finland. Then we backpacked through 15 countries before reaching Portugal. Before that, we drove the Pan American Highway (three times), toured Europe for four months, hiked to the Base Camp of Mt. Everest, circled Iceland, and rode horses across the Mongolian steppe... plus much more. HOW do we do it? How do we make so many dreams come true even with two businesses, homeschooling, and seven children? That's what we share in this episode. Discover the exact process we've used to make our many family dreams come true. Get a powerful start to this next year with this actionable episode that provides realistic steps for turning your family dreams into real life. Listen now! RESOURCES MENTIONED: Get our Extraordinary Family Life Planner 28-Day Challenge for Moms Be The Man app for Men -- iOS or Android --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

Before we had kids, we all had idealized visions of what we *thought* it would be like. For me, it included images of perfectly dressed and pressed children with clean faces sitting on a picnic blanket in the sunshine, enjoying a perfectly mannered meal together. But once we become a parent, we soon realize that those ideals are a far cry from reality. Instead, there are tears, tantrums, and sleepless nights. There are snotty noses and strong opinions. It's no wonder we're not enjoying being a parent as much as we thought we would. If you've ever felt like this -- and especially if you currently feel like this -- then make sure to listen to this episode. We'll share some pragmatic principles and practices -- from our experience raising seven children and working with thousands of parents and youth -- that can help you make your parenting journey so much more enjoyable. RESOURCES: Rachel's 28-Day Challenge and Family Charts & Systems for Moms Greg's Be the Man Coaching & Tribe and 7-Day Challenge for Men --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message

"What would I actually do if I spent more time with my wife and kids? What does that look like?" "I went on a getaway with my husband and I was bored. I couldn't wait to get back to the kids." "I've been going on more dates with my husband (because of the 28-Day Challenge) but we're not enjoying them. He doesn't like to do what I do, and I don't like doing what he does." "My husband and I went away and it was amazing, but I hated returning to the kids who just fight and quarrel every day." "I waited so long to become a mom and then it finally happened. But now I'm not enjoying it." We've heard questions like these -- and more -- over the past several weeks. People understand -- intellectually or philosophically -- that spending time with family is important. But emotionally, they don't always enjoy it. Or it feels like a chore -- or sometimes even torture. They would rather be doing something -- anything -- else, by themselves, with friends, at work. They can't stand the 'unproductivity' of sitting around, playing games, watching movies, or having to do an activity they do NOT want to do. But is this what 'spending time with family' really has to be like? Is there a better way? A way that makes you TRULY WANT to spend time together -- even 24/7/365 (like our family does)? In this episode, we outline intentional strategies we've used to create a family culture where we actually LOVE spending time together doing things that we LOVE doing. There's no torture or pain or wishing we could get away. Instead, there's true enjoyment and delight in being with one another, day after day, week after week. Let us show you how to make this a reality in YOUR family. Listen now. RESOURCES MENTIONED: Donate or support AerialRecovery.org Rachel's 28-Day Challenge for Moms Greg's Be The Man Coaching & Tribe for men. Habits for a Successful Life online class for teens. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/extraordinary-family-life/message