Understanding Mother Stories

In this episode, we talk about the "mom with no village," which means the experience of mothers raising children without immediate physical support from family or friends. Traditionally, a mother would receive assistance from her village, consisting of family members, during the transition into motherhood. However, modern circumstances often lead to mothers lacking this support system due to geographical distance or other reasons. Then, we delve into the challenges faced by mothers without a village, including feelings of isolation, exhaustion, and the inability to ask for help. Even when surrounded by family, some mothers may find themselves disconnected and unsupported, leading to difficult decisions like moving away from immediate support structures for the sake of mental health. The episode emphasizes the importance of identifying and meeting the needs of new mothers beyond the postpartum period, as support requirements extend into different stages of parenting. 0:00 Mom with no village, with no family present 3:50 Mom with no village, with family around 6:14 When you don't want to parent the way your parents did it 6:45 When we feel like a mom with no village, a hard reality Ohmama.ca, for moms with no village on instagram @ohmamaworld

In today's episode, we delve into the often overlooked topic of Cesarean section (C-section) births, shedding light on the experiences and emotions that surround them. While childbirth is commonly viewed as a natural and beautiful process, the reality is that many mothers undergo C-sections, either by choice or necessity, and may face feelings of guilt or shame as a result of societal judgment. Addressing common concerns surrounding C-sections, such as potential impacts on the baby's immune system and the risks associated with surgery, we acknowledge the individual circumstances that may necessitate this birthing method. Despite these concerns, personal experiences vary, and it's essential not to generalize outcomes based on birthing methods. We advocate for informed decision-making, emphasizing the importance of empowering mothers with knowledge and supporting their choices throughout the birthing process. By fostering a non-judgmental environment and prioritizing compassionate care, we aim to mitigate the potential for birth-related trauma and ensure that all mothers feel respected and supported on their journey to motherhood. 0:00 Feelings from c-section moms 3:20 Concerns regarding c-section births 6:45 : Advocacy for moms to make decision and be better informed 7:55 About choices, no judgment and preparation Find us on ohmama.ca Come tell us about your experience on instagram @ohmamaworld

In this short solo episode, I delve into a reflection that has been on my mind for some time. I explore the common phrase "I turned out fine" often used when reflecting on childhood experiences or parenting styles. What I've noticed is that beneath this statement lies a layer of shame and guilt, pervasive in conversations about parenting. Two main streams of parenting mindset seem to show : While it's not easy and may not always look perfect, striving for more than just "fine" is essential. Mothers deserve better than aiming for mediocrity when they don't trust themselves, and children deserve more than just getting by. Together, let's aim for thriving. Find us on ohmama.ca Let's chat on instagram @ohmamaworld

In this episode, Adeline dives into the subject of toilet independence in toddlers. Coming from a respectful approach to parenting, she talks about how "potty training" might not be the way to go in order for the child to learn about their body. Following a toilet independence learning, Adeline tells us about how her children learnt how to use the toilet. For questions, message us @ohmamaworld on instagram or go into our ohmama.ca chat (upon registration).

What a special episode with my friend Gursharn and her journey into In Vitro Fertilization. 0:25 Intro 1:30 What IVF is. 2:05 Gursharn's journey with IVF and pregnancy (subjects: tests, endometriosis, fertilization, ectopic pregnancy) 6:25 : Trauma in the journey (conceiving, disrespectful doctor, emotional challenges, loss, partner's trauma) 8:30 Matrescence, entrance into motherhood through the IVF process (matrescence: the undoing of who you are, relationship/connection with baby, lack of village, cultural barriers, identity shift) 10:55 What the journey has taught Gursharn: the surrendering, trust in the process, parenting, regression, discomfort of what being a mother might be for one person) 13:25 : About support or lack of support and how to deal with it in motherhood. 15/15 Conclusion: We will have our guest on the podcast again to talk about her work with women. Until next time Mama. Website: ohmama.ca Find us on instagram @ohmamaworld

Welcome to our 2nd year of Understanding Mother Stories podcast !! Enjoy this recap of our first year of podcasting for mothers of this world. Show notes: Introduction: Host's Reflections on the Past Year: Maintaining the Podcast Amidst Life's Challenges: Mission and Vision for the Future: Conclusion: Please share this podcast so we can reach more mothers. Find us on : website: Ohmama.ca Instagram @ohmamaworld

Lies, fibs, why do children do sometimes not tell the truth... ? There are many answers and possibilities, and this is all discussed here... ohmama.ca Instagram @ohmamaworld

A personal episode on how I have managed my anxiety as a child and how it still serves me nowadays. Ohmama.ca Instagram @ohmamaworld

We are back talking about the child from 6 to 12 years old and the formation of the sense of justice and what seems unfair. Enjoy! ohmama.ca instagram @ohmamaworld For questions, email me at dubreuil.adeline@gmail.com

We talk about the baby and toddler years so much but having a child going into their older childhood years comes with its sets of misunderstandings. Adeline deciphers the 6 to 12 yo child a little to make it clearer on how to approach parenting with the age of the second plane child. ohmama.ca instagram @ohmamaworld email me at dubreuil.adeline@gmail.com

I read Becoming, Michelle Obama's book and here are aspects I have loved about the idea of motherhood. Ohmama.ca IG @ohmamaworld

About co-parenting in a relationship/partnership. Website: ohmama.ca IG: @ohmamaworld

What do you do 5 minutes before you pick up your child ? Here are suggestions on how to spend these 5 minutes. Website : ohmama.ca Instagram @ohmamaworld

The problem with labels... and how we or our children integrate them as true. ohmama.ca IG: @ohmamaworld

When we talk about having self-compassion, do you know what it means and how to get there ? Adeline is giving some of her tools who helped her have molre self-compassion. ohmama.ca IG: @ohmamaworld

Do you believe you are a good person ? and do you believe there is good in everyone ? in every mother you meet ? The way you see this can change how you act in life. ohmama.ca IG @ohmamaworld

A short episode today to talk about a ramble of thoughts I had on the legacy we leave to our children. What do you want to leave to your children ? Website: ohmama.ca Connect on instagram @ohmamaworld

What does it mean when our child says they are bored ? Adeline deciphers why children say they are bored and also how we can support them through it. Enjoy ! website: ohmama.ca Connect on instagram @ohmamaworld

What is manifestation ? How can it influence our parenting ? Website: ohmama.ca Find me on instagram @ohmamaworld

What if... we don't set big goals or intentions at the beginning of the year ? Which way do you set up the new year ? With big goals or none, do you feel harassed by everyone setting big goals and you don't want to? Listen to this episode. Website: ohmama.ca Instagram @ohmamaworld